Renovating My Old House
Follow the fun, frustrating, and sometimes dangerous adventure of first time home buyers trying to renovate their old home.
Friday, June 2, 2023
How to check your home for asbestos (by yourself) before renovating
Wednesday, May 10, 2023
Complete Removal (rip-out), Expansion and Rebuild of Master Bath in a 1950's Cape Cod House

On the right side of the skinny bathroom was the toilet (check out that vintage toilet!), mirror/medicine cabinet, light switches and radiator.

Saturday, August 21, 2021
Installing a Bathroom Shower Curtain
Pros- No drilling needed — perfect for renters or tile walls you don’t want to damage.- Easy to install and remove (takes under a minute).- Adjustable length, so it fits most spaces.- Affordable and widely available.Cons- Can slip if not tightened properly or if the walls are glossy.- Not ideal for very heavy shower curtains.- Less sturdy compared to mounted rods.
Pros- Very sturdy; won’t slip or fall.- Best for heavy curtains or tension-weighted liners.- More decorative options, curved rods, and premium finishes.- Looks more permanent and polished.Cons- Requires drilling into walls (tile, drywall, or plaster).- Not ideal for renters unless approved.- Installation takes more time and tools.
| Feature | Tension Rod | Mounted Rod |
|---|---|---|
| Installation | No tools, no drilling | Requires drilling & screws |
| Stability | Medium | Very strong |
| Best For | Renters, temporary setups, lightweight curtains | Permanent setups, heavy curtains, curved designs |
| Wall Damage | None | Small screw holes |
| Adjustability | Fully adjustable | Fixed once installed |
- The length of your curtain
- How far down you want it to hang
- Keeping the curtain inside the tub to prevent leaks
- Measure your shower curtain’s total length.
- Subtract 1–2 inches for floor clearance.
- Mark that height on both walls.

Done! Less than 30 minutes of work.
Tuesday, November 3, 2020
What does it mean to own a home?
I suppose I should entitle this post: What does it mean to me to own a home?
My thoughts about home ownership have evolved since when I first started this blog many years ago. Back when we first bought the house we were so young, had so much energy and were amazed at this complicated but wonderful house we now owned.
A lot of life happens in people's homes. It is a place where some of your happiest memories are made, and it can be a place where you experience great suffering, which can come in the form of illnesses, and grief.
I think in the early years I didn't really understand what home ownership meant. You cannot just live in a house. You have to constantly repair, replace, clean, update and upkeep. I know we were doing that a great deal in the beginning, but we had a few years when we were busy with having kids, and forgot about it for awhile. In that timeframe several things went wrong with the house. We had major plumbing issues and we had issues on the external part of the house and the property.
The hardest part with having these issues was being unprepared for it . We should have known it could and would one day happen. We should have been upkeeping things such that they didn't completely break down. I don't know if being better prepared is something I should have known to do. I would like to think I am just 'normal.'
The one redeeming quality in all this, is that my story isn't over. I am still here in this house, and I have learned from my mistakes and will do better next time.
So what does it mean to own a home?
It means:
- You need to plan for more than just paying mortgage, taxes and utilities. You need to financially plan for repairs and updates as part of home ownership.
- Constant and continuous upkeep to avoid larger expenses and repairs later.
- Learning how to do many things yourself, and also knowing when to admit projects are beyond your skill, knowledge and comfort level.
- Learning how to make connections, get recommendations, hire contractors, get bids, and have others do work on and in your home.
- Learn from your mistakes. They are not mistakes, they are learning opportunities.
My thoughts on asbestos in the home when you renovate yourself
Asbestos--despite being carcinogenic to human life--would have otherwise been a very useful building material. I read somewhere that the ancient Greeks or Romans had asbestos napkins which they would throw into the fire to clean (the internet is not clear on whether it was the Greeks or the Romans). The napkins would not burn and would come out clean and white. It may be surprising to us now, but even the ancient Greeks & Romans noticed that the slaves who worked with this material would prematurely sicken and die. Why did it take modern society so long to do anything about it?
In most homes today you will find asbestos in tile flooring, external house siding, joint compound, attic insulation, and maybe even insulation around hot pipes. Before we started any project in our house, we often did check and worry about possible asbestos. Every time I had to check for asbestos I would wonder: what were the people who built with this stuff thinking? Why did they do it?
I have two possible answers. First, I think they used the asbestos material because it was what was mass marketed and mass produced at the time. Second, I don't think there was much thought put into what would happen when home owners would eventually have to remove or replace these materials. If there is any evidence that they thought what they built would last forever, all I have to do is look at my 1950's bathrooms, with 2 inch thick cement on the walls and floor. And for the most part, if you do not disturb the asbestos materials, they are generally not considered to be immediately hazardous.
The most common asbestos material that you will still find in public buildings today are the asbestos floor tiles. I know my elementary school had them in the whole building. They were routinely buffed and polished and were shiny and clean, but were still asbestos tiles. I have spotted asbestos tiles in my children's elementary school, and well as in older churches. Any building built between 1930 and 1970 could have these tiles. Older buildings which were renovated during that time period could have it, and even buildings built later, since builders could use excess asbestos stock even if they couldn't buy it.
There is so much history to asbestos which the current crop of homebuyers just do not know about. My father, who is of an older generation, remembers quite well building with this material, and it being very popular. When I was researching asbestos flooring a few years ago, I came across a copy of an old asbestos floor advertisement booklet. Needless to say, I was floored! But Seriously, when I first saw this booklet, I just couldn't believe it. This terrible material, responsible for so much human suffering, is right there, in an sales ad! Maybe this is how MY kids will feel when they see a cigarette ad in some historic archive. See the full booklet I am referencing here: https://inspectapedia.com/hazmat/Armstrong-Asphalt-Floor-Tile-Catalog-1955.PDF
I found that booklet from this website, which you can go to for more asbestos ads and information: https://inspectapedia.com/hazmat/Armstrong_Tile_List_1951-59.php
If you don't want to check out the link yourself, I have copied a snippet of the front cover below:
Check out that playroom! Haven't you always dreamed of playing in asbestos land? But, honestly, I am really not sure what the appeal of that floor tile was many years ago. I am not sure I would have installed it no matter how cheap it was. It really is just hideous-looking.
The sad reality is, there was a huge building boom in the U.S. during the prime asbestos years. Those houses and structures are still in use. Many of those structures are being renovated to modern materials and tastes. But will the people doing those renovations know to check for asbestos?
The first step to checking for asbestos is knowing that you could potentially have it. If you could have asbestos in the area you are renovating, just stop. Get it checked out. You can call a professional asbestos inspector, or you can send samples away to a test company yourself. Or, if you are very curious and want to test out how good the inspector is you can call an inspector AND send your own samples to a third party to check. I have done that myself.
You may not be concerned about your health in regards to asbestos, but you should be concerned for others. The material you disturb can get on your clothes, and in the air and can impact people other than just you. Do you want to bring home asbestos on your clothes and then wash it with your children's clothing?
You may not be aware, but most places have strict rules for disposing of asbestos containing materials. It is unlikely you will be able to dispose of it yourself in the appropriate way. All the more reason to contact a professional company.
If you turned to the internet to help you find information that supports whatever it is you were going to do anyway... well, then I recommend you stop reading this blog post, and look elsewhere. You will not find any stories here about how 'it will all be okay' if you just remediate it yourself. I know this is a 'do it yourself' blog, which means likely the audience is on a budget, but this is something you shouldn't do yourself. Part of being a homeowner is shouldering the financial burden of upkeeping your house. When you own an older home, you have the additional responsibility of diligently and properly updating it.
Saturday, October 17, 2020
Cleaning Car Headlights - Why Headlights Fog or Haze Over
- From your typical cleaning kit:
- Microfiber cloths
- All‑purpose car soap or mild detergent
- Spray bottle with water
- Rubbing compound, polishing compound, or “headlight restoration compound”
- Masking tape
- UV sealant or protectant (often included with kits)
- Optional: Sandpaper sheets (e.g., 1000–3000 grit), only if included
- Wash the headlamp
- Mix mild soap and water.
- Clean the lens with a microfiber cloth to remove dirt and road grime.
- Rinse and dry completely.
- Protect the surrounding paint
- Use masking tape to cover the paint around the headlamp.
- This prevents accidental scuffing when polishing.
- Put a small amount of compound on a microfiber cloth.
- Rub it onto the lens using firm, circular motions.
- Continue for 2–5 minutes per headlamp.
- Wipe clean and repeat as needed until the lens becomes clearer.
- Spray water onto the lens.
- Sand gently with 1000–3000 grit sandpaper in back‑and‑forth motions.
- Keep the surface wet at all times.
- After sanding, use rubbing compound to polish the surface smooth.
- Apply a UV sealant or headlight coating from your cleaning kit.
- Let it dry according to instructions.
- Remove the bulb and allow the housing to air out for several hours.
- Use silica gel packets inside the housing if accessible.
- The headlamp seal likely needs repair or replacement.

Thursday, June 7, 2012
Running a new water line for a Fridge
also purchase a second compression union, which I will use to extend the line from the basement to the connection inside the fridge.
First thing I did was find a convenient location behind where the new fridge would be located to punch a hole in the wall. This is going to be a entry point to the first floor for the cooper line that I would be running from the basement. This would have to be a place that is out of the way and would not be an inconvenience should I decide to later move the fridge to another location. We do not have a nook or built in fixture for a fridge so we have a little more flexibility to where we can place our refrigerator. We decided to keep it in the same location and have no intent in moving to any other place in the kitchen, or at least in the near future.
Once I made the opening in the wall, I drilled a hole going into the basement. It wasn't easy as I could not drill straight down but was forced to operator my drill at an angle. But the advantage is that it provided me a general location of where to drill up from within the basement. Initially, I tried to start drilling from the basement but as you can see in the picture below, my measurements were slightly off. I thought I had made my measurements correctly but they were apparently 5 or so inches off.
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